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10 "don'ts" for guests at a Nigerian wedding

A wedding is a very special day for two people who have come together to make, hopefully, life-long vows to each other, usually, in the presence of their families and friends. It is a solemn day as well as a time to celebrate. The last thing any witness to this special day would want to do is ruin it for the couple or make it memorable for the wrong reasons.

So here are a list of rules to add to your wedding etiquette handbook for when you want to forget your place and mae your self the centre of attention on someone else’s day.

1. Do not wear white Except you are a Kardashian and you are related to the bride and it is the colour of the bridal train, then you don’t want to be seen in this most revered of colours on someone else’s wedding day. This is especially for the ladies. No white gowns or iro and buba in some lacy fabric even if the bride herself is dressed in black. In Nigeria some guys wear white natives to weddings. Well, so long as your cap matches the asoebi and you are not dressed in white from head to toe, you may pass.


2. Do not upstage the bride (or the groom) Meaning, you should not be more flamboyant brighter than a peacock at its own mating dance. If so, na fight. Respect yasef! No sexy outfit that will draw all attention to you for the wrong reason. No super-hero costumes, no Zorro outfit, no regal native chief outfit that will have people ignoring the couple and focused on paying obsequies to you instead. It is not ya day! Leave all that at home and for once just be a guest, or a nice humble human being here to celebrate someone else.


3. Do not dress inappropriately You may not believe in one church or the other, or one mosque or the other but your friend who invited you to their wedding at their church or mosque does. So for the love of that friend, respect their faith and dress appropriately. No off shoulder or sleeveless gowns/blouses to the church or mosque. If you must wear a coat or shawl over your shoulders then let loose at the reception. Be respectful. You are there for a wedding not to make your atheist or agnostic statement.

4. Do not monopolise the drinks on the table You know how you go to a wedding and there are bottles of wine and packs of fruit juices on the table, usually enough for everyone on that table to share? Yes, to share. Everyone. Not just you. So please, do not strategically place a bottle in front of you or worst of all, grab it and stuff it into your bag before the reception even starts. Tsk. Tsk. If you take only a small wine glass or a shot of the wine or fruit juice you’ll still survive so don’t go embarrassing yourself.

5. Do not get drunk Oh please, seriously , don’t. Yeah drunk people can sometimes be a funny sight at wedding but most times their antics can be all together cringe-worthy. Drunk ex making the nice that turns to weepy regretful reminiscing toast. Drunk BFF that lets the whole world know you shagged the stripper at your bachelor’s eve the other night. Drunk uncle who remembers how he once caught peeping on the housegirl in the bathroom. Not to forget drunk randonm guest who turns the dance floor to some club/strip joint. That said…

6. Do not over do it on the dance floor Leave all your Michael Jackson skills for talent hunt stage before you hurt somebody. Only display once you are sure the bride and groom have retired or the reception has officially turned to a full on party. Still, leave the sexy porny moves for the club.

7. Do not make change with the money being sprayed on the dance floor Oh my! Who does this epp? You bring five hundred naira; because you want to spend enough time dancing with the couple or for some other random reason, you interrupt the long-suffering bridesmaid picking the sprayed money on the floor to make change of hundred-hundred naira. Why? How has this solved your problem? Why throw dirty stepped-on money back at the couple? Either you make change from your house or just drop your five hundred naira, dance small and quietly go back to your seat. Thatsall!

8. Do not be greedy with the random souvenirs You want to collect for your mom, you want to collect for your aunty, you want to collect for your grandmother; yet, you are the only one that came to the wedding from your family. Let the gifts reach the other true-born guests too abeg! READ ALSO: 10 memorable photos you must snap at your wedding

9. Don’t ask for the special souvenir if you did not buy asoebi Respect yourself. You were busy wagging your tongue at all who could hear about how the asoebi was too expensive. When you heard asoebi people were collecting iPad as souvenir, you shamelessly tagged along with a friend that sacrificed to buy the expensive cloth, hoping that they would just overlook your mismatched cloth and dash you iPad. Choi!

10. Do not desire to eat everything on the buffet menu You want to eat akpu, you want to eat semo; ofe akwu, onugbu, jollof rice, fried rice, chinese rice, peppered chicken, small chops, asun. snail! Only one you! In your only one stomach! When you are not a goat! Haba! Even if you don’t pity yourself, pity the toilet in ya compound and all the neighbours that will be forced to retreat in fear of the bomb you shall throw there!

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6 Wedding Dresses That Look Even Better From the Back

Walking down the aisle on your wedding day, is of course one of the biggest moments of your life! But gone are the days of making a big impression with just the front of your

wedding dress. Sure, everyone may watch you walk down the aisle — but it's your back they'll be looking at most during the ceremony. So you better make sure your dress screams "wow" from the back! Here, 6 wedding dresses that look even better from the back.

A daring scoop-plunge backline adds a sexy touch to Katie May's chic Barcelona dress (above), highlighted with peek-a-boo French Chantilly lace trim in the scoop for a bit of romance. Coupled with a chiffon fabric, the look really flatters all of the assets — and we're not just talking your back!

Katie May

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This bohemian beauty of a dress is complemented with a naked mesh back and delicate floral embroidery. Attached to loose sleeves and an even looser skirt, it's perfect for the free spirit. Romantic and whimsical, Elise Hameau's Iris dress takes on full effect when paired with short hair or an updo.

We can't get enough of this back triangle cut-out and the backdrop it provides for the collar's playful tassels. The open shape mirrors the geometric printed lace that comprises Grace Loves Lace's Soho dress, providing a beautiful and modern twist for the trendy bride.

A large bow perched at the bottom of the back and top of the derriere adds a fun and feminine element to this otherwise classic Carolina Herrera number. Paired with a show-stopping sophisticated train, the look is simple but stylish.

Soft tulle butterfly sleeves adorned with hand-beaded embellishments drape over the shoulders for a vintage and dreamy look in Anna Campbell's Adelaide dress. Wear this ethereal beauty, and you'll certainly feel like a bridal goddess saying your "I dos" at the altar.

A sheer back accentuated with baroque-inspired embroidery combines the best of a jaw-dropping back and beautiful details. Rich fabric and a tight silhouette with a flared train streamline this alluring look while adding a dash of flair.

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Surprise display lights up wedding trip

They ended up surprising all of Queenstown.

The Melbourne couple are in the business of weddings. Between them, their two reception venues host nearly 400 weddings a year.

So their post-wedding trip, after tying the knot in Melbourne last Friday, was always going to be extraordinary.

Melbourne couple Andrew and Deborah Judkins enjoy their fireworks display on Queenstown's waterfront on Saturday. Photo by Studiomax photography.

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The happy couple, and 22 close family and friends, flew to Queenstown on Saturday and dined at waterfront restaurant Botswana Butchery that night. They stepped out during the break between mains and dessert, for photos and "a surprise''.

In front of their stunned guests, they pushed a button starting the six-minute fireworks display.

"I absolutely love fireworks, so to make all my dreams come true, my now husband organised the fireworks display,'' Mrs Judkins said.

"It was a bit of fun. They were just blown away.''

Other than the sky, the display lit up social media.

One person asked: "Did someone start the Winter Fest fireworks a week early?''

To which one wag responded: "Yeah, thought we'd let rip while there was still snow about.''

The surprises did not end there. Four helicopters whisked the Australian group to the Remarkables mountains on Sunday.

Yesterday the party enjoyed Skyline's gondola and luge and today is a Shotover Jet ride. The group flies out tomorrow. The Judkins will head to the United Kingdom for a 12-day honeymoon.

The Judkins, who have both been married before, first visited Queenstown last August.

When they got engaged a month later, Queenstown was the "natural choice'' for an intimate, post-wedding trip, Mrs Judkins said.

"We just love it so much.''

Next time they visit they'll be buying a house?

"Very close,'' she said, laughing. "We would love to live here.''

Queenstown pyrotechnics expert Bill Falcone, who was contracted for Saturday's event, says private fireworks displays happened once or twice a year in Queenstown.

"The wind dropped. I thought it was wonderful.''

Falcone's skills will be put to use again this Friday for the Queenstown Winter Festival opening party and fireworks.

"It'll be a magical show.''

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